crossed arm?
open arm?
it is all about body language!
1. Look intelligent and like you know why you are where you are. Don't be dull eyed with flat and lifeless gaze.
2. Look friendly and approachable. Average and ordinary looking people are approached more often than extraordinary people because they look less threatening.
3. Give the GREEN light to come over. if we want someone to approach us, we do several things: look directly at the person, smile and turn our body towards them. if someone is doing all three to you, they're officially open to being approached.
4. Have relaxed and open body language. The person most likely to be chatted to and hit on has their arms uncrossed, stands with legs apart rather than clamped tightly together, and have their vody turned towards the crowd.
5. Have your thumbs on display. Dominant, assertive people invariably have their thumbs sticking up/out/ on show. in palmistry, the thumbs denote strength of character and in body language, this is also a sign of superiority. Confident men and women will often leave their thumbs out when they put their hands in their pockets.
so you appear confident enough? if yes congratulations! you are on your way to become the person everyone would like to meet. people loves easy going people, not a party pooper. so light up your face and give them that confident you! =) start by changing your body posture, that helps a lot!
Good luck!
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