Chosen Quotes to Share with (FIFTEEN)

When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak.

- Audre Lorde

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which type are you? which do you prefer?

i am an observer, most of the times i prefer to just sit around watching...

with my ideas merely forming within my mind, without uttering them.

but nowadays i found that voicing it out feels much, much better.

letting others know what you think is an important thing, don't underestimate your opinion, what you have to contribute might just trigger more interesting ideas.

and what is more, you can compare ideas too!

and so you'll learn more.. ^^

Chosen Quotes to Share with (NINE)

"Morality, like art, means drawing a line someplace. "

-Oscar Wilde

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yea, knowing where to draw lines is always IMPORTANT.

stepping a toe out of line, something unexpected will likely to happen.

okay maybe not that unexpected.. if you are not expecting something out of your control might happen, then why you draw the line in the first place?

it's for prevention.

preventing regretable things.

wait...

why is it always have to be regreatble things to happen when one stepped out of line??

it does not have to be that way, or is it??

*thinking... hard*

if, we see "stepping out of line" as taking risk, that will be totally different.

but for some people, because of their values, for them taking risk is just like doing something against their value system.

something that is very against what they believe.

therefore, for them, the risky behaviour is intolerable and immoral, in some sense.

did i got it right here?

no idea.. lol coz i think i am straying off topic. haha

you tell me.

why i love blogging

blogging...
a friend of mine told me it is not worth blogging because what if your ideas were copied by someone else?
what if someone make a profit from it??
it never come to my mind though~
i just like blogging..
if my blog can really help someone...
stimulate someone...
enlighten someone..
brighten someone's day..
then it is good!
how much will a person make from plagiarism anyway? LOL
when we blog, we should not think too much of whether your idea plagiarized by others...
blogging is a way of expression.
it is a way of sharing.
without sharing, how can you improve yourself?
if you have GREAT ideas but you keep it to yourself...
how would you know your idea is right?
when you blog, people respond.
it is then you will know how much more you need to improve..
and to understand your strength and weakness.
Blogger Rocks!
ha ha

Appreciate life...

Why people choose to commit suicide, but not to face responsibility or the possibly disastrous event in his life? Is it easier to face death than fear of losing something fragile like credibility, fame, losing face, wealth, to face reality? Almost everyone fear of death. Yes, you can't say everyone is fear of death. Because there's never such a thing that is absolute. Hardly ever. so maybe those who choose to commit suicide aren't fear of death. well... that's just an assumption.

So, if they are not really thinking that facing death is something like meeting old friend, why do they have the courage to face death, than to face responsibility? those who have chosen to end their life early... do they not fear of death? why do they do it then? if they fear of death? what made them choose to follow this horrible one way trip instead of trying to solve the seemingly disastrous thing happened to them? yes, some tend to think that it is the end of the world when our deeply loved partner left us for someone else. To them, it IS the end of the world. the world just crashes in and they feel suffocated. If they do not get suitable advice and support, some... like many of those who had done it, choose to end their lives early. But come to think of it, the disastrous things happened to you and me, maybe is not that disastrous after all. There are more and more people out there who had to go through lots of what we call "disastrous events", which may be tens and thousands time more tragic comparing to the problems we faced.

Sometimes, it is good not to take life too seriously. Indeed. 'Cause when you tensed up yourself too much, you might get too involved and end up feeling miserable when things do not go your way. Try to lay back, relax... spend more time reading and talking to those interesting people around you. Exchange ideas, and jokes and anything you know about. Sharing always leads to stimulation of thoughts and ideas.. you might eventually get a soul mate who you would never dream to missed out in this lifetime. who knows?

CHEERS! xD