心态

心态决定幸福
探索生命
追求智性
呼喊灵性
攀向更高远的意义与价值
是幸福 更是内在心灵的基本需求
企求穿越回归真我的旅程。。。

attRaction-encounter

i am thinking. what would you do to get the attention of an opposite sex?

be crazy? be loud? try to find a topic? dance around? talking loudly around him/her? sing a song loudly? try to be around him/her as often as possible? or being attentive to his/her every need? buying gifts..?

which of those have you done to attract the attention of the opposite sex?

what i did, was pretty easy. and i believe every girls have done it. just IGNORE. i think this would happen to those guys who like the chase rather than being chased.

and it is silly that this time it happened when i was not even did it on purpose. i am very tactless and insensitive to this kinda thing. i mean seriously. at most time, i am pretty tactless, i treat guy friends just like neutral friends, no gender difference. i can be pretty close to guys so, almost every guy friend that i have, are pretty much like just plain friends.. so plain that at times it is SO weird to look at them romantically. it is more like brotherly bond, no attraction at all. lolz i don't really mind to ask for a number from guys either, it's not like i have any motive other than being friends and stay in touch. it is just what i do, to widen my social circle. to meet more people. and every people i meet, i bound to keep their contact.

ok, so it was like...i was wondering why on earth this one guy seem so nice and friendly all of a sudden. i met him once or twice and the encounter i had with him, was pretty bad. he was like a cold person, not talking nicely and acting nicely and above all, i was pretty much invisible to him. he did not leave any good impression but during after which the second time we met, still i did take down his number and joked that taking his number was pretty important but we never contact at all.

and this time we met again, and out of my expectation, he seemed nicer and i even caught him stared at me a few times, though when i looked at him in the eye, he has already averted his glances. and he was even nice enough to help (felt like i was the damsel in distress and he came to help, i was stucked with a task at hand and was thinking of a solution then suddenly out of nowhere he came over asking "what's wrong" and offered his help) what's with the attitude change eh? in the previous two times i met and worked alongside with him, he never offered help, not even a smile.

if i weren't feel more confident, i would have thought bad about his attention. (o' dark old days... the glees i got from both the boys and girls... lolz) but then again... he stared probably because i looked a little different than the previous two encounters he had with me. i am much more confident and... well... lots of the elders and friends told me that i look a lot better nowadays, (1 auntie even said "you were so FAT and UGLY!" Now look at you.. much much prettier now... ) LOLz.. even if the blemishes still kills me at times but i feel great all in all, now that i have got a healtheir lifestyle with much balanced diet and daily exercise.

so... the theory of prettier girls get more attention is true. oh well, i am not pretty at all, i am just a normal looking girl. it is just that i appear much nicer looking than i once were. haha.. if i really is THAT pretty, he would have called. wouldn't he? =P

to say "i miss you"

I MISS YOU!
i hardly ever not saying this ever since... dunno when.
some people think that it is best to avoid saying "i miss you" and *HUGs* to male friends as much as female friends.
i mean does it matter?
expressing your concern and love for others is something that comes naturally..
we should never hold back..
so... never forget to stop by to those you care and say...
I MISS YOU!!

Get what you WANT in life. Read on...

Currently i am reading...
Secret by Rhonda Byrne
and
The Astonishing Power of Emotions: Let Your Feelings be Your Guide by Esther and Jerry Hicks

Adapted from the official site of The Secret, here's a description of the book...
"The Secret reveals the most powerful law in the universe. The knowledge of this law has run like a golden thread through the lives and the teachings of all the prophets, seers, sages and saviors in the world's history, and through the lives of all truly great men and women. All that they have ever accomplished or attained has been done in full accordance with this most powerful law.

Without exception, every human being has the ability to transform any weakness or suffering into strength, power, perfect peace, health, and abundance. The Secret explains with simplicity the law that is governing all lives, and offers the knowledge of how to create - intentionally and effortlessly - a joyful life. This is the secret to everything - the secret to unlimited happiness, love, health and prosperity.

This is the secret to life."
And the secret is: the power of universal "the law of attraction."

According to Byrne the law of attraction exists in various ways: "Nothing (good or bad) can come into your experience unless you summon it through persistent thoughts" (p. 28). "Your thoughts are the primary cause of everything" (p. 33). "Your current reality or your current life is a result of the thoughts you have been thinking" (p. 71). "This is The Secret to everything—the secret to unlimited joy, health, money, relationships, love, youth: everything you have ever wanted."

These two books hold the idea on the power of thinking that everyone possess. Our thoughts are really a amazing instrument which affects what we may or may not come across in life. If we anticipate for the worst to come, there's highly likely that we may end up in a situation that is not to our liking. Likewise, if we anticipate for the positive, our brainwaves will emit positive vibes all around in such its frequency and as a result, good things happen one after another.
Every thoughts that you and I have right now, will end up deciding what you and I may face in the future. the one fraction of second of thought may trigger a lot of different possibilities.

The "self" that we are now, is the result of our past thoughts and emotions. In order to improve our lives, we must first improve our thinking. It's just simple as that. Believing that you can actually change your situation for the better is vital. It's the state of mind which affects the emotions. it's like a chain reaction. thoughts - trigger emotions - affecting behaviour/ attitude- end result= the situation one landed in. To attain self- actualisation and happiness, our emotions is the key.

It is all about self-empowerment, self-fulfillment, and getting whatever we want.
why not try this out and start to change your life today??