自由

自由。

大家都渴望言论上的自由、 独立自主的自由等。。
却没有人反思自己是否懂得如何运用自己的个人自由。
有人说“我就是要那么说，这是我的自由。与你何干？”
也有人说“我已不再是小孩，我知道自己在做些什么。这是我的自由”
没错。。。
自由，是你的。
但你懂得怎么适当的运用吗？
界限是什么？由谁设下来？
难道你不曾思考诸如此类的问题？
发现很多人一直把“我要...的自由”挂在嘴边。。
可是却不知道这些自由的真正意涵。
“越大的自由需背负更大的责任”
虽然说很多事与物的定义都是由社会契约定下以及设限。
而个人创造自己的定义固然也是好事。
但触及一个会涉及他人的自由的自由，就没那么容易从社会契约的枷锁逃脱了。
个人，永远难以与社会扯开关系。

Appreciate life...

Why people choose to commit suicide, but not to face responsibility or the possibly disastrous event in his life? Is it easier to face death than fear of losing something fragile like credibility, fame, losing face, wealth, to face reality? Almost everyone fear of death. Yes, you can't say everyone is fear of death. Because there's never such a thing that is absolute. Hardly ever. so maybe those who choose to commit suicide aren't fear of death. well... that's just an assumption.

So, if they are not really thinking that facing death is something like meeting old friend, why do they have the courage to face death, than to face responsibility? those who have chosen to end their life early... do they not fear of death? why do they do it then? if they fear of death? what made them choose to follow this horrible one way trip instead of trying to solve the seemingly disastrous thing happened to them? yes, some tend to think that it is the end of the world when our deeply loved partner left us for someone else. To them, it IS the end of the world. the world just crashes in and they feel suffocated. If they do not get suitable advice and support, some... like many of those who had done it, choose to end their lives early. But come to think of it, the disastrous things happened to you and me, maybe is not that disastrous after all. There are more and more people out there who had to go through lots of what we call "disastrous events", which may be tens and thousands time more tragic comparing to the problems we faced.

Sometimes, it is good not to take life too seriously. Indeed. 'Cause when you tensed up yourself too much, you might get too involved and end up feeling miserable when things do not go your way. Try to lay back, relax... spend more time reading and talking to those interesting people around you. Exchange ideas, and jokes and anything you know about. Sharing always leads to stimulation of thoughts and ideas.. you might eventually get a soul mate who you would never dream to missed out in this lifetime. who knows?

CHEERS! xD