自由

自由。

大家都渴望言论上的自由、 独立自主的自由等。。
却没有人反思自己是否懂得如何运用自己的个人自由。
有人说“我就是要那么说，这是我的自由。与你何干？”
也有人说“我已不再是小孩，我知道自己在做些什么。这是我的自由”
没错。。。
自由，是你的。
但你懂得怎么适当的运用吗？
界限是什么？由谁设下来？
难道你不曾思考诸如此类的问题？
发现很多人一直把“我要...的自由”挂在嘴边。。
可是却不知道这些自由的真正意涵。
“越大的自由需背负更大的责任”
虽然说很多事与物的定义都是由社会契约定下以及设限。
而个人创造自己的定义固然也是好事。
但触及一个会涉及他人的自由的自由，就没那么容易从社会契约的枷锁逃脱了。
个人，永远难以与社会扯开关系。

Pleasing Men

Dress to Impress??

confidence

from hair to toe
up and down
do we women dress to impress men?
or we dress to feel good?
my idea is to dress to feel good.
when we dress to make ourselves feel good, how do men perceive us?
do they think we are trying to impress them?
when they see woman who walks like she is a runway model
do they think this woman is trying to impress them?
maybe not.
sometimes, we women just enjoy the feel good elements that make us feel great~
with or without men's appreciation.
we have our freedom.
may it be freedom of expression, freedom of giving ideas (women's ideas are still being ignored or placed second by majority of people if there are male ideas present) and freedom of choosing whether or not we dress to impress men or to feel good, etc.
we have control over our own body that we have our sexual freedom as well.
we may choose our sexual partner and it is not up to the men to have a say on that.
some men think that by attaining a woman's body it means he conquered her.
hence she belongs to him.
Nope.
the woman has her own freedom to decide~
and suddenly i remembered
there's a quote from a movie (p/s: it was a feminist movie)
"he dances to seduce, he seduce to conquer, he wants to conquer because he is a man"
the quote indicated that, man... likes to conquer.
and it is only when they conquer that they feel that they are men.
this quote is also saying that men are weak in the sense that if they fail to conquer, they feel very unman-like.
if he wants to prove that he is a man, he needs to conquer.
yo guys~ is this true? xD