Dress to Impress??
confidence
from hair to toe
up and down
do we women dress to impress men?
or we dress to feel good?
my idea is to dress to feel good.
when we dress to make ourselves feel good, how do men perceive us?
do they think we are trying to impress them?
when they see woman who walks like she is a runway model
do they think this woman is trying to impress them?
maybe not.
sometimes, we women just enjoy the feel good elements that make us feel great~
with or without men's appreciation.
we have our freedom.
may it be freedom of expression, freedom of giving ideas (women's ideas are still being ignored or placed second by majority of people if there are male ideas present) and freedom of choosing whether or not we dress to impress men or to feel good, etc.
we have control over our own body that we have our sexual freedom as well.
we may choose our sexual partner and it is not up to the men to have a say on that.
some men think that by attaining a woman's body it means he conquered her.
hence she belongs to him.
Nope.
the woman has her own freedom to decide~
and suddenly i remembered
there's a quote from a movie (p/s: it was a feminist movie)
"he dances to seduce, he seduce to conquer, he wants to conquer because he is a man"
the quote indicated that, man... likes to conquer.
and it is only when they conquer that they feel that they are men.
this quote is also saying that men are weak in the sense that if they fail to conquer, they feel very unman-like.
if he wants to prove that he is a man, he needs to conquer.
yo guys~ is this true? xD
up and down
do we women dress to impress men?
or we dress to feel good?
my idea is to dress to feel good.
when we dress to make ourselves feel good, how do men perceive us?
do they think we are trying to impress them?
when they see woman who walks like she is a runway model
do they think this woman is trying to impress them?
maybe not.
sometimes, we women just enjoy the feel good elements that make us feel great~
with or without men's appreciation.
we have our freedom.
may it be freedom of expression, freedom of giving ideas (women's ideas are still being ignored or placed second by majority of people if there are male ideas present) and freedom of choosing whether or not we dress to impress men or to feel good, etc.
we have control over our own body that we have our sexual freedom as well.
we may choose our sexual partner and it is not up to the men to have a say on that.
some men think that by attaining a woman's body it means he conquered her.
hence she belongs to him.
Nope.
the woman has her own freedom to decide~
and suddenly i remembered
there's a quote from a movie (p/s: it was a feminist movie)
"he dances to seduce, he seduce to conquer, he wants to conquer because he is a man"
the quote indicated that, man... likes to conquer.
and it is only when they conquer that they feel that they are men.
this quote is also saying that men are weak in the sense that if they fail to conquer, they feel very unman-like.
if he wants to prove that he is a man, he needs to conquer.
yo guys~ is this true? xD
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wow u kinda veered off topic there with this post coming to the later part of the passage =..=
ReplyDeleteguys are usually the more functional type of gender, hence we guys will normally dress to make ourselves feel comfortable, but the clever ones will also dress to impress when the need arises.
girls on the other hand are more aesthetically motivated hence do normally dress to impress IMO
NOT only to the opposite sex but also to everyone, that's what I've observed.
on the "man conquering stuffs" part i won't comment much cuz i don't believe in conquering, i only believe in harmonized resolution where both sides can reap benefits that suits them both most.
my 2 cents