it's time to really break free from typecast on us women.
Is it good to be an independent woman?
in my life, there are a few male friends that i know, told me they think i am an independent woman.
and some truly showed their respect for me.
and i really thank them for that~
but being an independent woman, does it mean that...
she is emotionally detached from man?
she does not need a man?
she is too strong to get close with?
she is intimidating to most men?
she has strong opinion?
she wants to be single?
well, not really.
my idea is i WANT a man but i do not NEED a man to survive.
some women claimed that they can not live without a man.
they feel as if the whole world collapsed once their man leave them for good.
but it does not work that way.
A man who comes into your life only will add happiness to your existing happiness.
there is nothing wrong with being emotionally strong and independent...
every woman has a dream to get married to the man of her dreams.
but it is not totally up to your dream man to make your life wonderful and complete.
it is up to you to fulfill your life with joy and happiness.
starts believing.
in my life, there are a few male friends that i know, told me they think i am an independent woman.
and some truly showed their respect for me.
and i really thank them for that~
but being an independent woman, does it mean that...
she is emotionally detached from man?
she does not need a man?
she is too strong to get close with?
she is intimidating to most men?
she has strong opinion?
she wants to be single?
well, not really.
my idea is i WANT a man but i do not NEED a man to survive.
some women claimed that they can not live without a man.
they feel as if the whole world collapsed once their man leave them for good.
but it does not work that way.
A man who comes into your life only will add happiness to your existing happiness.
there is nothing wrong with being emotionally strong and independent...
every woman has a dream to get married to the man of her dreams.
but it is not totally up to your dream man to make your life wonderful and complete.
it is up to you to fulfill your life with joy and happiness.
starts believing.
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independent? do you mean social detachment? that's part of maslow's hierachy to reach the top. That actually means at that stage you wouldn't care for how others think of you in whatever you do. Have u reached that level yet? =P
ReplyDeletewa wa wa...u like kahwin d..can talk till so detailed..haha
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ReplyDeletewhat's not good about being a independent women?
ReplyDeleteI like independent women ^^
especially those who has initiative in doing/deciding stuffs, makes live not only easier(for us guys) but also much more interesting >:D
clingy and dependent gals are just too much of a hassle these days LOL