we are never complete

we are afraid of being lonely.. hence we always find things to fill up our lives. so that we feel... fulfilled. just a theory though.

but, between the lines, there's just some realness.. when we feel that we have nothing to do, we always end up with something to do. to think deeper though, all the things that we do to fill out our loneliness, are they meaningful enough to fill our life?

see this in another light.. everything that we have done, have its consequences, may it good or bad. meaningful or not, it's another case.. something that we do might not enhancing our knowledge, or wisdom, but perhaps it brings certain happiness into our lives, or into your friends' lives.

there's a theory that saying "why running away from loneliness? why not just stay there and face it and try to understand loneliness?"~~~

haha, this gets my head spinning..

we run away from loneliness coz we are afraid of being lonely. why are we afraid of being lonely?

we are afraid of being lonely becoz we likes to communicate with one another.

why do we communicate then? so that we can understand more about this world. we can't really totally understand our world even until the end of our lives. hence we are all eager to know more about this world through the lens of other people. because our perspectives are limited.

oh yeah.. don't get all serious with "i know that" "i understand that" "i have totally achieve this, i am thus complete".. no, you dun know at all. all that we perceive is only part of the whole. there's more that we have not yet explore.

each of us see things differently, which some of us frequently see some parts of the truth and others see the other parts of the whole.

we are never complete.