where is your smile?

Look into the mirror,

and tell me what you can see.

Why is your complexion so dull,

and why can’t I see you smile?

Smile, my friend. As that’s when

I can see your beauty shines through.

Smile, my friend. As this is what

I like about you.

What happened to the twinkle in your eyes?

Where had it gone to?

I missed it so much,

that I am desperate to make you smile.

Look into your soul,

and find yourself from within.

Let go of the past,

and find the merriment you used to have.

Can’t you see that I genuinely

Wish you to be happy?

Can’t you see that I truly Cherish you?

Look, I am here.

to make you smile

to wipe away your tears.

Never fear, ‘coz I will never leave you behind.

But to grab hold of you,

when you lost your balance in life.

Smile is...

(^^ highlight the smile on your face ^^)

SMILE

a toddler's smile is the purest smile above all

Smile- is a language of LOVE

Smile- is a way to get SUCCESS

Smile- is to win the HEARTs

Smile- improves your PERSONALITY

Smile- affects those around you with HAPPINESS

Smile- is the best accessories you HAVE that can bright up the day of yours and those around you

^^ME^^



i love it when you smile... yes, YOU. =P

no regrets

don't regret anything that ever made you smile...

things in life that made you smile..
tends to have happy elements and no matter how many obstacles you have to go through
don't regret the path you have chosen and been through.

^___^

Socialise, be Funny and Make new Friends...

1. Relax and... Just be yourself. Don't be afraid to express your opinions. If someone insults you, just ignore them - they have no idea what they're talking about! You have nothing to loose by expressing your views, your ideas might contribute to a discussion by stimulating more ideas from those around you.
   
2. Be Optimistic. Even if you are feeling really down, remember that there's always something out there to smile about. A positive outlook will make people want to be around you more. So, the next time you feel down, and everything do not seem right, try this. Look into a mirror (anywhere you can find one) and see your expression changes by trying to smile. Just by doing this, you will feel better. Seriously. I did that and it works.
   
3. Smile as much as you can. Signs of encouragement let people know you care about what they are saying. And smiling makes you look more approachable.
   
4. Share interesting/ silly idea. Your thoughts can open up many doors that can lead to friendship. Don't be afraid to be silly once in a while.
   
5. Listen more than you talk. Instead of nodding and smiling and occasionally wiping the drool off your face, try to take what the person says and run with it. Add your own thoughts into the mix - but don't hijack the conversation. Don't steal the limelight from your others. Be a good listener.
   
6. Start by doing little things if you are very reserved. For example, every time you go to school, work, or wherever, say hello to one person and have a one-on-one conversation with them. It makes all the difference.
   
7. Say "hello" to those that don't talk much. Share something about yourself, such as where you're going or why you're there. Avoid talking about the weather - as Tom Waits says, "Strangers talk about the weather." Try to compliment them. You'll likely to be the person who light up their day.
   
8. Don't expect perfection out of anyone, especially yourself. For example, if you forget your own name while introducing yourself, just make fun of the situation. It works as an ice breaker.
   
9. Talk to older people, maybe even your own folks. They will be less likely to ridicule you, therefore making it easier to learn to talk well. And admit it, older people loves our company.
   
10. Place importance on making social contacts. The people who are considered popular may not be the sharpest tacks in the box, but they are acquainting with important people who may contribute to their future careers. It is never too late to feel that being popular is important. If your work environment allows for it, host a party, organize a sports game, etc.
11. Love yourself. It is difficult to like others when you do not appreciate yourself for who you are. Try exercise to improve your self-esteem. Start your journey to "self-discovery."
12. Be loyal. Little things count. If you make an appointment, be on time. If you're in a group, show up early, and stay late (even if you don't have anything to say at the moment).
13. Be nice to others. Always give compliments, but don't try too hard. If you are shy, take a deep breath and risk it - you never know what might happen. Again, if you are shy on the outside but a little crazy on the inside, let it out once in a while. Wear your hair up high and spin around or dance. Others will laugh and find you funny and fun to be with.
14. Stand up for your rights. When someone is being too hard on you or perhaps showing signs of prejudice, speak up! Let it out in the open: "Is there any reason to make you prejudiced?"
15. Be Honest. Lying will make people not want to be your friend any more.
16. Has open body language. Don't cross your arms or turn away from the crowd. Be approachable. People likes a person who is approachable.
    

点亮他人的生命。。。一个小故事。。。

让别人的生命有一点不同、有一点亮光是何等简单啊！

怎 么说呢？ 每一个人活在世上总不希望会被忽略。那种感觉太难受了。你今天问候了你的朋友吗？当你们偶然相遇时，你有热情的与他招手吗？或在路上与人擦肩而过时，你有 给他一个微笑吗？要知道，你的一个举动，都可能让他人感到焕然一新、让他人觉得美好。

有一个小故事是这样的：有一位退休的法官名为李厦普洛，是个极富爱心 的人。他喜欢拥抱他人，因为他明了，爱是最伟大的力量。他的大学同学都称他为「抱抱法官』。一天，李夏的一个职业为小丑的朋友来拜访他，并邀请他到一间残 障之家，探望那里的朋友。在那里，李夏很热心地去拥抱每一个病人，散播着关怀。数小时之后，他们来到最后一间病房。在那儿，李夏看到这一辈子所见过情况最 糟糕的三十四位病人。顿时，他的情绪十分复杂。最后他来到了最后一个病人李奥的面前。李奥穿着一件白色围兜，神情呆滞地流着口水。李厦见壮，对他随同的朋 友说：“我们跳过去别管他吧！”他朋友答道：“可是他也是我们的一份子啊！”于是，李夏深呼吸一下，弯下腰抱了李奥一下。突然间，李奥开始嘻嘻大笑，其他 的病人也顿时把整个病房弄得叮当作响。李夏不解地转过头向医护人员询问这是怎么一回事，只见所有医生及护士都喜极而泣。李夏只好问医护长是怎么一回事了。 李夏永远不会忘记她的回答：“二十三年来，我们第一次见到李奥笑了。”

让别人的生命有一点不同、有一点亮光是何等简单啊！我怎么也不会忘记这一个小故事。因为它唤醒我，要让一个人的一天过得好一些是那么的容易啊。。。

只要一个微笑。。一个拥抱。。就可以让一个人的生命重燃希望与欢乐！！