Socialise, be Funny and Make new Friends...

1. Relax and... Just be yourself. Don't be afraid to express your opinions. If someone insults you, just ignore them - they have no idea what they're talking about! You have nothing to loose by expressing your views, your ideas might contribute to a discussion by stimulating more ideas from those around you.
   
2. Be Optimistic. Even if you are feeling really down, remember that there's always something out there to smile about. A positive outlook will make people want to be around you more. So, the next time you feel down, and everything do not seem right, try this. Look into a mirror (anywhere you can find one) and see your expression changes by trying to smile. Just by doing this, you will feel better. Seriously. I did that and it works.
   
3. Smile as much as you can. Signs of encouragement let people know you care about what they are saying. And smiling makes you look more approachable.
   
4. Share interesting/ silly idea. Your thoughts can open up many doors that can lead to friendship. Don't be afraid to be silly once in a while.
   
5. Listen more than you talk. Instead of nodding and smiling and occasionally wiping the drool off your face, try to take what the person says and run with it. Add your own thoughts into the mix - but don't hijack the conversation. Don't steal the limelight from your others. Be a good listener.
   
6. Start by doing little things if you are very reserved. For example, every time you go to school, work, or wherever, say hello to one person and have a one-on-one conversation with them. It makes all the difference.
   
7. Say "hello" to those that don't talk much. Share something about yourself, such as where you're going or why you're there. Avoid talking about the weather - as Tom Waits says, "Strangers talk about the weather." Try to compliment them. You'll likely to be the person who light up their day.
   
8. Don't expect perfection out of anyone, especially yourself. For example, if you forget your own name while introducing yourself, just make fun of the situation. It works as an ice breaker.
   
9. Talk to older people, maybe even your own folks. They will be less likely to ridicule you, therefore making it easier to learn to talk well. And admit it, older people loves our company.
   
10. Place importance on making social contacts. The people who are considered popular may not be the sharpest tacks in the box, but they are acquainting with important people who may contribute to their future careers. It is never too late to feel that being popular is important. If your work environment allows for it, host a party, organize a sports game, etc.
11. Love yourself. It is difficult to like others when you do not appreciate yourself for who you are. Try exercise to improve your self-esteem. Start your journey to "self-discovery."
12. Be loyal. Little things count. If you make an appointment, be on time. If you're in a group, show up early, and stay late (even if you don't have anything to say at the moment).
13. Be nice to others. Always give compliments, but don't try too hard. If you are shy, take a deep breath and risk it - you never know what might happen. Again, if you are shy on the outside but a little crazy on the inside, let it out once in a while. Wear your hair up high and spin around or dance. Others will laugh and find you funny and fun to be with.
14. Stand up for your rights. When someone is being too hard on you or perhaps showing signs of prejudice, speak up! Let it out in the open: "Is there any reason to make you prejudiced?"
15. Be Honest. Lying will make people not want to be your friend any more.
16. Has open body language. Don't cross your arms or turn away from the crowd. Be approachable. People likes a person who is approachable.