Showing posts with label truth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label truth. Show all posts

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Chosen Quotes to Share with (TEN)


"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth. "
-Oscar Wilde
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and i thought truth is only be said when the mask is off.

or is the truth here in his words referring to the truth everyone wants to hear?

or it means one will not dare to speak of the truth unless his real self- real identity is concealed? to protect him or herself? if you want the truth, i have to make sure i have a mask on...

therefore...

mask on= truth will be offered?

yeahh.. quite right.

Monday, August 25, 2008

tell the Truth or Lie?


To tell the truth means truthful; to lie means dishonest. This idea was implanted to us all since we were a kid. Honesty has been kept at a pedestal so high above all that to lie seems to be such an act that is intolerable and unethical. However, as we grow older we start to understand how our world actually works. More often than not, many of us trace carefully around the edges of to lie or not to lie. Occasionally we keep a toe out of line and cross the border just to make things feel right.

Lies are all around us. One can not deny the fact that lying is indispensable under various circumstances. Just as Bergen Evans said “lying is an indispensable part of making life tolerable.” No man is an island. We are on constant contact with the people around us and therefore much caution must be applied when we talk so as to maintain harmonious relationships. Friendship for instance, builds through time and some are really strong but there are times when it can be quite fragile and breaks easily. Sometimes, it is being too truthful that caused well-maintained friendships to break into pieces.

While honesty is certainly the best policy, the truth is, in our day-to-day encounters, it is not all the time socially acceptable to be completely honest. Some people may disagree on this but it is hard not to lie especially to the people we cared for the most. We usually lied on the ground of afraid of losing them if we were to tell them the whole truth. Even to the closest people like our family members, we will never be entirely truthful if we know that the truth will likely to cause them pain and misery. Not all people really want to hear the truth. Who wants a rough life that is full of truths? At times, we just hope that people will tell us white lies to make us feel better and to make our life more tolerable.

at times, we can hardly live a life that is free of lies. Yet, we have to know how to balance between truth and lies with the practicalities of the situation because sometimes men have to lie, in order to survive in this world.


p/s: this is part of an written assignment of mine.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

when you realised you are a CLONE

nothing seems more normal than the life you are having
you breathe, you feel and you live.
happy or not
this is your life.
you accept and you take it and make the most out of it.
what if...
when you thought everything is real and solid
there's nothing more disastrous than to hear that you are merely a carbon copy of one other human who look just like you.
or more disastrous to know that you are not as special as you think you are.
that's absurd.
how can you not be the unique one?
how can there be someone else just like you?
you believe that you are special, one of a kind...
but you are not that special at all.
you read through the same books, were taught with same ideas under the same education system, were inspired by the same role models, addicted to the same predictable popular culture...
we are the same.
how can you not?
you are merely a clone of what the people in power creates.
you are nothing.
nothing, really.
not until you realised the truth and fight against it.
but how many will realised it before it is too late?
even when you realised it, are you strong enough to make a change?


note: a mixture of inspiration by The Island; Fight Club; 1984; the Matrix


Tuesday, June 17, 2008

short of breath...

as i look around me...
everywhere is US...
sometimes it is suffocating to know how different we are.
yet most of the time there are similarities.
is there more similarities than difference?
should we focus on just the similarities? or just on the difference?
is it good to be just like everyone else?
everyone else has it; everyone else is doing it; everyone else believes it......
what will happen if one day you find out that you are the only one who is awake?
will you try to escape from it? from the "reality"?
or will you attempt to wake up others too?
or would you rather just knock yourself unconscious and keep on sleepwalking in the "reality" everyone perceive as "TRUE"?

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Solitaire Mystery

where do i come from?

Some time ago, I read a book entitled "The Solitaire Mystery", and to my astonishment, it turned out to be quite a nice read. I absolutely loving it! The story was about a boy, started his journey along with his father, in search of his mother who ran away. The way the author related the story with philosophical issue that captivated my interest. The author successfully brought out the main issue, "where do we come from" and "why do we exist"..

The story circulates around a pack of solitaire. Through the conversation between the boy and his father, the author discussed about his view upon the matter which actually closely relate to us. According to the author, each and every one of us were a Joker.

In a pack of solitaire, there's at least one Joker. And the Joker, is the only card that does not belong to the four family (heart, spade, diamond and club). So the Joker stands alone, and alone he is, to be able to see clearly, without being clouded by untruth.

In the story, there was a stranded sailor on an island. He felt so lonely that he started to imagine that the pack of solitaire he had in his pocket was alive. After many years, every card eventually became alive. Yet, they didn't know that they were just imaginative items of that old sailor. They had never questioned themselves, "where did they come from", "why were they here".. But not the Joker. The Joker was the last to come alive, and he alone did not belong to any "family". He kept questioning himself and the others the same question. But the others, were just repeatedly doing the every day chores, without doubt. They worked, they ate, they slept.. ain't this mirroring us in reality?

Well, it's true that we seldom question ourselves the doubts, like "where do we come from", "why we do this" and all.. how do we find answer? There are no exact answer for our doubts.

"Why do our brain is so complicated?", once the boy asked his dad. From the way his dad answered, one cannot deny that there wasn't truth within his words. How did he asnwered? He said," Human's brain is too complicated that we cannot understand it. Yet, if we have a simpler brain, we won't have the ability to understand it either. As our brain is too simple, that we become unintelligent to understand ourselves. For instance, the brain of a bug is so simple that it does not understand how its brain works.

there are more to think about, after reading that book. And this is the kind of book that interest me most.