Doesn't mean that you have to forget"
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Calling
Doesn't mean that you have to forget"
Thursday, October 16, 2008
一个人的故事 (小品)
打从心底发疯似的呐喊.
风纳闷。。你为了什么而抓狂?
雨心疼。。振作啊!
逆风而行。。寒风轻触表肌渗入心肺。
坚韧的防线慢慢的出现裂痕。
感觉上稍微的碰触就会将他的防线全面瓦解。
他的坚持到了哪里去?他到底在坚持什么?他要证明什么?还可以证明什么?
不安腐蚀了他的思绪。。也逐渐夺走了他的自信。
但他还没崩溃。。还没。。。
继续在雨中蹒跚不去。。
他知道,接受雨的洗礼,可以让他看得更清楚。他坚信。
他知道,他必须离开了。
勇于面对失败。
没有后退,没有退缩的余地.
他必须扛起失败的责任。
她的背叛让他失去了好多。
松懈。。放下。决定重新开始。
这场雨见证了他的决心。
他迎风而去,脸上慢慢绽放出笑容。
他知道,明天的他,将会与众不同。
Wednesday, October 8, 2008
要做就做到最好
而我,也把这句话当成我的座右铭之一。
若要对事情认真看待,就得先调整自己的思想。若自己给一件事情既定的想法,将框框加附在事情上,你将会看到你想要的。没办法发现你不知晓的一面。对人,对事物都一样。
还有不少启发性的名言是我一直相信的。
就好比说: " your state of mind determines your thoughts and emotions" 也就是说你的思想情绪取决于你的思考方式。
面对困境或悲伤,好多人慌了,乱了阵脚。我也一样。我曾尝试暂时撇开当下的情绪,问自己:“这真的有那么困难吗?”“我相信我经得起这个考验".. 之后呢?没错,我的心情好多了。
很多事情,其实并不复杂。是我们把它复杂化了。我们的既定想法= 事情怎么可能那么简单?
没错,就那么简单。只要你转换思考方式,就会发现原来一切就取决于你的思想。
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
a new dawn
beneath it all
it is all bare
bare to all
there is no distance
there is nothing in between
exist side by side
stand up for whoever is in need.
believing... is the key.
no assuming.
no hesitating.
just breathe...
and calmness will come to you.
fear not of the fear itself
look at it in the eye and you will find yourself stronger.
as thr fear itself manipulates you through your perception of it..
with no fear stands in the way..
getting to the other end unscatched.
no backing away...
no turning away...
once started, get on with it...
persistence is the key.
hold onto the key
and soon, comes the new dawn.
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Review: What Would You Do
what would you do if you can't do anything but just lie there?
what would you do when it all gets so cold out there that you felt nothing?
what would you do when you find that there's no one but yourself who care about you?
If you lying there, would you be thinking about your nearly impossible future? or the past? would you do anything, anything at all to change your present situation? or just lie there silently, not wanting to draw too much attention and clearly wanted to be forgotten?
If the world out there became so cold and selfish, would you be one of them? or shutting away all of that and be a lone warrior? fighting against the main stream?
If you find that you are alone in this world, so lonely that your presence seems to be a thread away from turning into vapour, what would you do to change that? would you recall the warmth you used to feel, and show your gratitude for that? or just held the hatred towards this world for not to understand and accept you?
If you lost the mobility, you should not give up cause you are still alive. you can think, you can talk. you can stand up straight again, believe it. while there's life, there's hope.
When the world out there gets so cold, stay strong and hold on, for there might be other warriors struggling too.
when you think that the whole world walks out and turns back on you, you are wrong. you are the one who shut them away, not vice versa. it's how you see things that makes the difference."
and there may seem never ending as the lonesome follows,
you are not alone...
with your family by your side,
u gotta have a strong believe that you will be fine,
as strength keeps one alive..."
written by Cherish (wenQ)
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Through the end we sail... ^^ (warning: freewriting)
through the end...
naturally, we all know and have accepted the fact that somehow we are sentenced to death when we first landed in this world~
we all are given chance to walk the years ahead
with all the ways we want to be,
well, not entirely.
because our culture and upbringing shaped our future~
the way we were taught and our experience since childhood shapes our character~ our perception~ and therefore, our future.
you see, where does the idea "boys should never play barbie dolls or wear dresses" comes from? why men likes cars? do you think you like cars because you born to like it? actually it is something implanted into them since they were kids.
parents buy car models, toy cars, toy pistols, toy guns, for their male children and buy barbie dolls, fluffy toys for their female children. you see what i mean?
but then...
even so, we have to believe we can achieve.
believing we can obtain some achievement no matter how hard it is..
and hey, by saying achievement,
it doesn't mean you have to get some Nobel prize or whatever prizes or titles there is~
achievements comes in all shapes and sizes.
achievements can be found around us~
it's just that sometimes we look at it in the eye but we never sees it as an achievement~
coz we are too obsessed with materialistic world~ cash, fame, anything abt glory~
whichever way, the ending is the same~
starting from the day we are born,
we have our stories written~
This is our story. Mine and Yours.
from the beginning through the end, we sail through...
Sunday, July 6, 2008
15 Universal Truths about MEN
1. When you speak softly, I can't help but listen.
2. I don't read minds. Remember, I am not a girl.
3. When I talk to you about golf and you act bored, it would be nice for you to remember all the times I listened to you talk about what is important to you.
4. I'm scared if I let a woman inside my heart, she'll take advantage of me.
5. I need to be told “no” sometimes. Not a lot, but every now and again reminds me that you are expensive.
6. The woman I love is easy to please. She appreciates the effort I put into making her happy, even if I get the details wrong.
7. When I’m upset I am very tone sensitive. How you say it is more important that what you say..
8. I don’t always know how I feel. That’s why I don’t tell you.
9. I hate it when you minimize/ignore my compliments. It makes me want to stop giving them.
10. If I do one thing and say something contradictory – Go with my actions, that will always tell you what’s in my heart.
11. If I don’t share what I’m thinking it’s because I don’t think you will listen without interrupting.12. I don’t like to argue and I don’t like to guess what’s wrong. Just tell me so I can fix it.
13. It isn’t how much you weigh; it’s that your body is proportionate which is so attractive.
14. I don’t remember everything about our relationship and that doesn’t mean I don’t love you.
15. I find myself wanting to please you when you simply smile at me without asking for something. (Like a favor).
Girls... Next time before you both get into an argument, try to put yourself in his shoes... ^^
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Trust and Believe
Trusting one another is the essence of friendship and any other relationships.
though, when you trust, you are putting yourself out there at risk of being deceived or fooled. well that's a pessimistic thinking~
you gotta know, putting trust in people sometimes acts as an encouragement and it helps those who needed that trust from you.
People who feel not trusted might lost hope and feel displaced~
just like... got no one or no where to go to.
Trust gives us strength.
Same applies when you believe in yourself, things do seem lighter and everywhere you go, there is hope isn't it?
that's how it is when someone who needed trust receives some sort of support from me or you. ^^
start believing that no matter how hard you fell, there is always a willing hand to pull you back up. those who trust and believe in you will. =)