Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.
- Eric Hoffer
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what we see as rude may be a way someone is trying to be defensive of himself, stand firmly to his perception, as a mark of strength.
therefore the more rudeness ones show, sometimes i would feel sorry for them. because i know, deep down, there must be some past that has hurt their "self" / "ego" so much that it's wounded or scarred.
to defend themselves against more hurtful experience, they tend to separate themselves from others. it won't be easy to gain their trust, so until that day, he or she will appear less friendly, more to a rude manner, in order to keep possible threats at bay.
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