当你选择放弃你的最爱时，别想再能将它找回来。- 胡佳伟
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a friend of mine ended her relationship lately.
he was not the love of her life, but she was still pretty sad when it ended.
he wasn't her loved one; she wasn't his either.
lacking of passion made their relationship go stale.
who is your loved one?
whom would you sacrifice for the most?
would you let go, even when you can hardly live without him/her?
when you sacrifice your love, will you ever find the same love ever again?
is love replaceable?
some say "no"...
some think "superficially yes, but deep down and truly, they think it is irreplaceable"
some say "yes".
is it possible to have two most loved?
no? why not?
why is it always just ONE?
i am not implying anything, i am just pondering.
what do you think?
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I don't really believe in the concept of soulmates either. It's rather depressing - what if your other half dies? Or is married or attached to someone else?
ReplyDeleteAnd that romantic crap of Mr. Perfect? He doesn't exist, girls.
that's the reality of life.
ReplyDeleteat one point of life, you thought you have found "the one".. but is there such person?
sometimes i believe it is our way to comfort ourselves, to satisfy our need to feel complete, that "oh. he is the one, the mr right"
Hey there
ReplyDeleteWell, I think that you can have many loved ones...but when you tell someone, or treat someone as though they are "the one", you're sorta implying that they are special.
And people like to feel special, I suppose. I mean, if you were just "one" of your lover's or even your parent's many other loved oneS. I'm sure it would be depressing.
As for soulmates...well, a soulmate is not necessarily a love/life partner. Sometimes it could be your best friend. It could be of the same gender or different.
Plato (I think it was him) said that long ago, the Gods created the first human beings as two creatures in one. Some were both male and female, some were all male and some were all female.
And when they were sundered and split into separate individuals, they still shared the same essence, the same spirit, the same soul, basically.
And because the spiritual energies of each person if unique, the vibrations/energies of the two souls constantly draw upon each other (like magnets) which is when two people seem to click in place so suddenly and intimately.
of course, if you think about it the idea is a lot like that of co-joined twins and therefore, the love for your soulmate could be purely platonic.
Interestingly enough you may want to read something I read on another blog about love.
It discussess love between humans and animals actually. But it's still interesting.
http://terriblyterrific-terri.blogspot.com/2008/11/mystic-pete-is-in-studio-says-brb.html
everyone wants to feel "belonged", a sense of belonging, and yes, everyone wants to feel special.
ReplyDeleteit would be comforting to know that at a certain point of life, you are special for someone, you are the only one.
and hey, i like the spiritual energies theory. coz it sounds convincing for what i believe in.